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Marriage Sunday February 13th and 14th 2010
We will celebrate Marriage Sunday on February 14th, a day that coincides with the Feast of St Valentine, a feast that rejoices in romantic love and lifelong marriage. We especially celebrate married life in all its ups and downs, joys and sorrows, romance and pain. During Mass we will offer a blessing for all married couples. Let us go beyond the popular emphasis on flowers and chocolates for a day, to focus on the life- long commitment of those who are married.
St Valentine was a priest in Rome at the time of Emperor Claudius II. The story goes that Claudius, urgent to recruit soldiers for his armies, decreed that all weddings be suspended so as to encourage more single, unfamilied men to serve in combat. Seeing the anguish of the young couples forbidden to marry, St Valentine allegedly performed secret weddings in defiance of the Emperor.
He was beheaded on February 14, 269 AD and buried on the Flaminian Way where archaeologists have unearthed a catacomb and an ancient church dedicated in his name. He is the Patron Saint of engaged couples, happy marriages, love and lovers.
We celebrate today not only the love shared by those couples among us, but also the love of the Great Lover, Jesus. Christ, our bridegroom, invites us to join him in an everlasting covenant; an eternal love union that is reflected in the love of each and every dedicated married couple.
A Prayer For Married Couples
Father of life and love,you created us in your image - woman and man. We rejoice and thank you for the gift of each other.
Sustain us in our love and lead us to a deeper understanding of your love.
Jesus, we come before you, seeking your guidance and direction in our relationship.
In marriage you call and challenge us to a permanent, exclusive and sacred friendship.
Be our strength and support, therefore, as we continue this journey together.
Holy Spirit, help us to strive towards a lasting, honest commitment united in love.
Give us your strength to carry each other in times of darkness, your joy in times of happiness, and your gift of awe in the uniqueness and sacredness of each other.
May our love be a reflection and a sign of your love in the world.
Amen.
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